
Chapter One - Using the mom test
- You shouldn't ask anyone whether your business is a good idea. Only the market can tell.
 - Doing it wrong is worse than doing nothing at all. When you know you're clueless, you tend to be careful.
 - Good conversation = concrete facts about our customer's lives and world views. (Their problems, cares, goals and constraints)
 - Until we get specific, it always seems like a good idea.
 - The big mistake is almost always to mention your idea too soon rather than too late.
 - Talk about their life instead of your idea.
 - Ask about specifics in the past intead of generics or opinions about the future. Anything involving the future is an over-optimitic lie.
 - Talk less and listen more.
 - Opinions are worthless. People will lie to you if they think it's what you want to hear.
 - People know what their problems are, but they don't know how to solve those problems.
 - You're shooting blind until you understand their goals.
 - Some problems don't actually matter
 - Learn through their actions instead of their opinions. This shows where the problems and inefficiencies are, not where the customers thinks they are.
 - If they haven't looked for ways of solving it already, they're not going to buy yours.
 - People want to help you, but will rarely do so unless you give them an excuse to do so.
 - Customers own the problems, we the solution.
 
Chapter Two - Avoiding bad data
- You want facts and commitments, not compliments = distracting and wirthless.
 - Complainers X Customers
 - Understand the motivation / need behind the request. Ideas and features should be understood, not obeyed.
 - Compliments are worthless and people's approval doesn't make your business better.
 
Chapter Three - Asking important questions
- You can tell it's an important question when the answer to it could completely change or disprove your business.
 - You should be asking a question which has potential to completely destroy your currently business. You should be terrified of at least one of the questions you're asking in every conversation.
 - You want the truth, not a gold star. The worst thing one can do is to ignore the bad news. Learn and adapt quicky from the lukewarms responses.
 - Most people have problems which they don't actually care enough about to fix, but they'll happily tell you the details of if you ask them.
 - Start broad and don't zoom in until you've found a strong signal, both with your whole business an with every conversation.
 - Always consider both Product risk (Can I build it? Can I grow it? Will they keep using it?) and Market risk (Do they want it? Will they pay? Are there enough of them?)
 
Chapter Four - Keeping it casual
- Learning about a customer and their problems works better as a quick and casual chat than a long, formal meeting.
 - If it feels like they're doing you a favour by talking to you, it's probably too formal.
 
Chapter Five - Commitment and advancement
- When it's time to show the product we're now in position to cut through the false positives by asking for commitments and advancements.
 - The more they're giving up, the more seriuosly you can take their kind words.
 - It's not a real lead until you've given them a concrete chance to reject you.
 - If you treat people's time respectfully and are genuinely trying to sove their problem, those cold conversations start turning into warm intros.
 - In early stages sales, the real goal is learning. Revenue is just a side-effect.
 
Chapter Six - Finding conversations
- The only thing people love talking about more than themselves is their problems.
 - If it's not a formal meeting, you don't need to mention that you're starting a business and explain why you're there.
 - If it's a topic you both care about, find an excuse to talk about.
 - Immerse yourself in the community.
 - The world is a relatively small place. Everyone knows someone.
 - Vision - Framing - Weakness - Pedestal - Ask
 - Go in search of industry and customer advisors.
 
Chapter Seven - Choosing your customers
- Getting specific about who your ideal customers are allows you to filter out all the noise which comes from everyone else.
 - Customer-slicing. Good customer segments are a who-where pair.
 
Chapter Eight - Running the process
- The learnings should be shared among the team.
 - Move past the obvious stuff and spend your conversations finding answers the internet can't give you.
 - If you don't know what you're trying to learn, you shouldn't bother having the conversation.
 - Add symbols to your notes as a context and shorthand.
 
📌 Cheatsheet
- Talk about their life instead of your idea.
 - Ask about specifics in the past instead of generics or about the future.
 - Talk less, listen more.
 - Avoid bad data (compliments / fluff / opinions / ideas / requests / emotions).
 - Don't pitch.
 - Don't be too formal, keep it casual.
 - Find a niche.
 - Fish for facts / commitments / advancements .
 - Understand the why behind a request.
 - What do you want to learn from it?